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mp567
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 Posted - 08/28/2005 : 6:51:40 PM
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My girlfriend and I have been having problems for around 2 months now. We just kinda broke up. Soo she got a new " friend " She said the reason she isnt with me is because of airsoft. She told me to choose between her or airsoft. I have not yet made my decision or talked to her. Whats even more interesting is that her new " friend " airsofts!!!!
Point of story: If not controlled properly airsoft can really mess up your life. If you have the choice between buying a magazine for your pistol or taking your girlfriend to dinner, go with dinner. |
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JV
Captain
USA
Member Since: 08/11/2004 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 6:55:17 PM
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| wow, ummm I'm glad my girl friend doesn't care if Im into airsoft just as long as Im not into any other girl. |
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sekiryuu
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Member Since: 07/17/2005 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 6:56:13 PM
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| and you cant have a compromise? sorry if this offends you, but your girlfriend sounds too self-centered. . . choosing between her and airsoft. . . your whole damn life shouldnt be as a slave to her |
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foxhound
Colonel
USA
Member Since: 09/17/2003 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 7:12:16 PM
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Dude just go with her. Airsoft really isn't worth it.
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newbiegun
Sergeant
USA
Member Since: 05/05/2005 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 7:23:10 PM
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Originally posted by sekiryuu
and you cant have a compromise? sorry if this offends you, but your girlfriend sounds too self-centered. . . choosing between her and airsoft. . . your whole damn life shouldnt be as a slave to her
i agree with him i think your GF is a little self-centered.
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Kran
Sergeant
USA
Member Since: 03/06/2005 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 7:26:19 PM
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| Dude, no offense but this sounds like the problem has nothing to do with airsoft. If this new "friend" is more than a friend as you imply, and he airsofts, then problem does not lie with airsoft, but with other problems within your relationship. Once agian, no offense, but get this topic off the airsoft forums. It does not belong here. |
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Apache137
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Member Since: 06/02/2005 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 8:08:19 PM
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SCREW HER MAN if she gonna be like that then screw her u could prolly do better neway,
her new "friend" airsofts. MY GOD !!!! |
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Cjasper
Sergeant
USA
Member Since: 08/04/2005 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 8:14:06 PM
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Originally posted by mp567
My girlfriend and I have been having problems for around 2 months now. We just kinda broke up. Soo she got a new " friend " She said the reason she isnt with me is because of airsoft. She told me to choose between her or airsoft. I have not yet made my decision or talked to her. Whats even more interesting is that her new " friend " airsofts!!!!
Point of story: If not controlled properly airsoft can really mess up your life. If you have the choice between buying a magazine for your pistol or taking your girlfriend to dinner, go with dinner.
That is pathetic. Your girlfriend breaking up with you because of airsoft... But you do have to be pretty stupid to do something else then take her out to dinner. |
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Atilla
Moderator
USA
Member Since: 02/19/2003 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 8:14:31 PM
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if the girl is willing to break up with you over airsoft you're better off without her, bro.
i explained airsoft to a girlfriend i had as such: asking me to get rid of these guns would be like me asking you to throw out your lipstick. would you do it? sh*t no. she understood and there were no airsoft-related problems after that. sure it (like all relationships) ended... but at least it wasn't over airsoft.
forget her... and then invite the new friend to a skirmish. get even with the sting of hundreds of plastic pellets. sure that may not be that gratifying--but lining up an ex-lover's lover in some iron sights and pulling the trigger... that sure is! all in good fun, right? |
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12724
Sergeant
USA
Member Since: 08/01/2004 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 8:19:48 PM
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| Amen to that, Atilla. As for the Girlfriend, unless you have been going out for 8 years and you already eloped, dump the guns and get her back, but if it's been 3 days, she's a control freak and you should have dumped her ass a long time ago. I actually was in your position (but without airsoft guns, something else), and I just went ballistic and dumped her. Best choice I made that year. |
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treefrog361
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USA
Member Since: 01/25/2004 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 8:27:24 PM
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| Keep the guns, lose the gal. Simple as that. |
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mp567
Sergeant
USA
Member Since: 03/27/2005 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 8:27:43 PM
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Atilla I already invited him to our skirmish tuesday night with my brand new m4a1c upgraded to 360 FPS!!!
12724 it was 10 months. I have not yet made my decision, but Atillas argument should help. |
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username
Major
USA
Member Since: 07/07/2003 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 8:32:10 PM
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Shoot her in the face with your newest airsoft gun and ask her what she thinks of YOUR new/special friend. Problem solved.
Damn I'm good at giving advice. |
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zip3400
Staff Writer
USA
Member Since: 07/18/2002 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 8:37:51 PM
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Originally posted by mp567
Point of story: If not controlled properly airsoft can really mess up your life. If you have the choice between buying a magazine for your pistol or taking your girlfriend to dinner, go with dinner.
REAL Point of story: Don't bother with silly girls that play games, it's not worth the trouble or time.
You need to get perspective on things, breaking up with some drama queen isn't going to ruin your life. |
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Shadowhawk
Captain
USA
Member Since: 01/04/2005 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 8:40:20 PM
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| ask yourself if she is worth it. But if your not willing to give up airsoft just a little (i.e spend a little less), then you wount have money to spend on a girl, and you'll end up marryng your airsoft stuff. |
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rain_man159
Probation 8/05
USA
Member Since: 07/07/2005 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 10:25:12 PM
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if her "New Friend" airsofts then i think like it was mentioned earlier that ur prob is not airsoft but ur relationship. and by the way if i were u i pay a little vist to ur gf's "New Friend" with a bat  but hey if ur not like that u should still do something about that. |
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K40S
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Member Since: 07/09/2004 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 10:40:43 PM
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| Geez Atilla comes up with the best ideas! lol. well i told one of my old gfs that i airsofted, and she said she would be too scared to try. end of that story. But all relationships do end, so dont blame airsoft. -K40S |
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sekiryuu
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Member Since: 07/17/2005 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 11:07:29 PM
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JLee
Colonel
USA
Member Since: 01/03/2002 |
Posted - 08/28/2005 : 11:22:51 PM
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Dude..you're fifteen.
Also..fix your profile - long term relationship at 15? Don't take it personally..but c'mon man - you're not even out of high school yet!
Move on - there are better girls out there. There's no law saying you have to have a g/f - heck, look at me at 21..  |
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trdsupragt
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USA
Member Since: 04/11/2004 |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 12:05:40 AM
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Dude..you're fifteen.
Also..fix your profile - long term relationship at 15? Don't take it personally..but c'mon man - you're not even out of high school yet!
Move on - there are better girls out there. There's no law saying you have to have a g/f - heck, look at me at 21..
There's no law saying you can't either.
Age shouldn't matter. If you feel an age group in unfit for relationships, it's probably based on individual experiences, or from how you view that certain age group. It all really boils down to maturity and how you handle things. And I'm sure you've met people older than you that can act an age much younger than you.
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mxu57
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Member Since: 09/16/2004 |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 12:31:23 AM
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Ah, so I'm a lucky one! Mine doesn't really care. I shot her in the leg by accident once even, and she kind of got pissed (reasonably) but no big deal. And I'm pretty damn obsessed too.
Just dont neglect her dude, that would be a bad move. And if I had to choose between her and airsoft (although she wouldnt be the one to make me) it would have to be her. |
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DarkArchon
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 05:01:56 AM
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Ouch.. to make that choice is the worst evil ever to befall an airsofter...
well now we know kids, buy all your airsofty things before you get a gf |
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layzzyboy
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Posted - 08/29/2005 : 07:19:47 AM
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Lets look at the facts :
Her new friend airsofts too
She broke up with you because of airsoft
conclusion: maybe it was just you and nothing to do with airsoft |
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Magnus55
Sergeant
USA
Member Since: 04/16/2004 |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 09:07:05 AM
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Originally posted by layzzyboy
Lets look at the facts :
Her new friend airsofts too
She broke up with you because of airsoft
conclusion: maybe it was just you and nothing to do with airsoft
Yeah that makes the most sense. It probably wasn't airsoft at all. Is this guy's gun bigger than yours? |
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deepstaged
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Member Since: 02/07/2005 |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 10:33:22 AM
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Hahaha... er.. sorry...
I won't get all preacherized... but I'll say this..
Last Saturday... was my wifes birthday...
Last Saturday... there was also an airsoft game hosted by RLB...
Guess where I was...
Thanks for the game RLB.. I had a blast!! |
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Smeed
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Member Since: 06/17/2005 |
Posted - 08/29/2005 : 11:04:34 AM
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| If she is making you choose she obviously doesnt care about you too much. If she already has a new friend so quickly she probably doesnt really want to be your girlfriend anymore. |
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Worst choice ever.
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